I used to finish books and then forget why I had liked them. A week later I could recall the mood but not the particular line that changed my mind. Keeping a pencil close has made my reading slower and much more companionable.

I underline sparingly. More often I put a small mark beside a passage and write a question in the margin. Why did this detail matter? What would the opposite claim look like? Where have I noticed something similar outside the book?

A good note does not preserve every sentence. It preserves a reason to return.

A modest reading ritual

  • Before beginning, write one thing you hope to understand.
  • Mark passages that surprise you, not just those you agree with.
  • At the end, keep three lines in your own words.

The ritual takes only a few minutes. It leaves a path back into the book when memory turns fuzzy. Sometimes the path leads to another book; sometimes to a better question for a friend.


Reading is still a pleasure before it is a practice. The pencil simply helps me stay in the room a little longer.